WARNING! WARNING! JUSTIFICATION ERROR!!

So I was just wondering why it is when some men eff up they feel the need to give a stupid excuse to Justify there immature actions or reactions?!?!

Just from watching talk shows, and seeing it around me in my daily life, I've decided to make this little cheat sheet for boys out there claiming to be men. Just to help them understand us women and to see if they can return the favor and try to help me understand them!;)

- First of all if a woman asks you to give her a few minutes to calm down or she is just quiet this is simply because if you keep taunting her she will walk out slamming every door that gets in her way!!!! By doing this she wants you to know that she is pissed off, just without the whole arguing/yelling part. So where in her question or hearing the door slam does it justify you calling her out on her flaws or whatever else is deeply bothering her!?!? What did you accomplish??

-Secondly When a woman works just as much hours as you or possibly more and she wants to rest after a long stressful day at work, its because she is tired. Having said that Stess can also drain a person, especially if they have to hold everything in just to avoid arguing with you immature ass. So don't get it twisted. Stop being dramatic, and No its not because she isn't cable of doing her duties around the house. Honestly where in this situation does it justify you calling her Lazy or worthless?? About being Lazy, you guys work the same amount of hours so take a minute to think about that. Oh and the whole worthless thing, I just think that its just an excuse to make guys feel better about the situation. She is helping out with the bills just as much as you are. Uugghhh...............

-Thirdly When a woman says its that time of the month, and that she has bad cramps, back pains, bloating and possibly uncontrollable mood swings, then THANK her for the advance notice and do like a TAMPON and "SUCK IT UP"!! Some men think that cramps, bloating and mood swings are all in our heads, but still is that enough grounds to justify them to feel and act the same way as us or worse when it is that time of the month for US!?!?!.. We still have to worry about going to the restrooms every few hours just to avoid any accidents, which can be so inconvenient. They will never know how that feels. I wish it really was all in my head, then I would imagine this whole situation differently, like guys having a MENstrol Cycle!!!;)


-Finally When you ask a woman whats bothering her or whats wrong, expect an honest answer and that you could possibly be proven wrong about some things. You might get offended with her answer, Yes this is true, but you did initiate the conversation. You obviously knew something was wrong otherwise you wouldn't have asked, right!?!? All she wants to do is answer your question honestly and sincerely so don't yell back if you don't like what you hear. She might say something you don't understand but all you have to do is ask her to brake it down for you, help you understand it. Don't guess or twist what is being said to what you think she means. There might be miscommunication, but it's common. That's why I said ASK, don't guess. However I know that there is going to be those handful of guys that will guess anyways. I just want to know if those guys honestly think that because they don't like an answer to a question they obviously wanted answered , does this justify there immature reactions or actions they have?? Do they think that they look tight in the public eye because they can pronounce harsh words written in a dictionary for all the world to hear? I know woman are not perfect but we sure do try!!! Or at least I do!! Not all the time, but most of the time;)

**I just want these men to chill the eff out and re evaluate there justifications..... These kinds of people annoy the shit out of me. I would normally watch what I say, or should I say, what I type but these guys are killing me. HONESTLY, get over yourself and grow up. You would think that after being blessed with the lives they have (I mean with us in it!) they would want to change for the better. Oh dear, what is so hard about showing a little respect, maturity or patients!?!?!? Let me know what you think if you are reading this......