So I dont really have much pictures of my eldest on this laptop but as soon as I get home I'll be sure to upload some and leave another blog dedicated just for him!! His name is To'a Lame Motuliki and his birthday is June 27. He is now seven years old!! Gosh he is growing so fast!! I hope that I can mold him to be as perfect as he could possibly be! I know that I dont set the best examples for him but I'm working really hard at it!! We celebrateded his b-day twice already last week; once with my family and another with his dads family!!LOL!! I mean yes our families get along but T.j is the eldest grandchild on my side of the family and my dad spoils him, so for that he got his own little birthday party from my dad and then again theres Toa's family, who celebrates every grandchild's birthday!! On there scale, T.j is like grandchild number 13 or something like that!!LOL!! Seriously!! Anywho we went to St. George for the weekend for Pou and Alices(Toa's cousins) daughter, Daiseys, first b-day and it was simple yet very nice!!Anywho I just felt so bad because the party happened to fall on June 27th and we were busy trying to help out with the party that T.j was starting to feel left out. He kept asking why was everything for Daisey and not him!?! I sang Happy Birthday to him numerous times and still it was not enough! I mean I had to spend money during the week for his previous parties and yet it was not enough... Uugghh.. I felt so bad for my son. He started to cry to him self in the back of the car on our drive back to Kels house. His dad did not understand him at all. Or at least thats what it seemed like when he started yelling at T.j and reminding him of his previous birthday partied he just had. I knew that this would happen and yet Toa didn't listen to me. I told him that even though we did little family get togethers for T.j that I still wanted to do something special for T.j, I mean just th four of us!! Toa said no that if we have time later then maybe we could do something but it was too late. T.j was already heartbroken thinking that we as his parents forgot about him and his birthday. I know my kids and I know that on there birthdays the expect something. I try to teach my kids how to be grateful but its hard when every time there cousins have birthdays we always try and get them something. Well look at me just rambling!!LOL!! Anywho this weekend was just okay!! I wish it could have a been a tad bit better but its life, just have to play with the cards that were dealt!! okay well since I'm going to blog again once I get home I will leave it at that!! Take care and good night to all my fellow bloggers!!!LOL!!
2 comments:
Awww.. poor T.J! Tell him don't cry, I'll be picking him up Friday morning! :D and then he'll forget all about you and Toa! LOL.. Love ya sis!
no worries...tell TJ about my past b'days and he'll get over that he had only one party...I had a party where I wasn't even invited to it, and my cake was eaten and my family had grubbed all the food 4 my b'day!! So tell him it's no biggie!! LMBO!! :)
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